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col_newlife 42F

2/8/2019 11:13 am

as poppy said, i do what i am asked. that includes wearing an outward sign of my ownership. My Master has various methods of 'collaring' me including a common collar.


diavoloslave 62M
202 posts
2/8/2019 11:35 am

interesting topic ….like most I do as I am commanded and told to wear....but I can see there trailer trash part of the lifestyle being more and out there …..said but that is the truth from my point of view


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
2/8/2019 12:40 pm

I have even seen Domina's with a collar on their neck....
i was totall flabbergasted....
It is all play role sex.
Not BDSM at all.
reinacting porn fantasie.

To each their own....


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
2/8/2019 12:43 pm

It is all a kink fashion accessoires.


hotgirl2014 49F
3 posts
2/8/2019 1:14 pm

Who defines what is what than the two,people involved?
Bdsm is what the participant mutally agree it is to them. Their consents to, each other matters most and not our opinion.


hotgirl2014 49F
3 posts
2/8/2019 1:21 pm

Who defines what is what in alternative life stlye than the two people involved?
Bdsm is what the participant ( here I mean the partners)mutally agree it is to them. Their consents to each other matters most and not our opinion. If the submissive partner accepts to wear any form of collar as a sign of his/her submission, that's there shit not mine.


bdst1 63M
703 posts
2/9/2019 3:24 am

Ha ha. As if a "real" dom gives any kind of shit what some community feels he should or shouldn't do. If he wants his sub to wear a collar, she will, if not, she won't. End of story.

Or are you really trying to suggest that a truly dominant male will follow some arbitrary rules that somebody else wrote??

Contact me privately via the PM at the head of my blog page


allycheekon 58F
124 posts
2/9/2019 11:39 am

i too am rather offended by the term "mere submissive" and finding this has been popping up making it sound that submissives are less of than a slave. So this is now a 'class system' and slaves are held in higher esteem? That's not right, it's what sub, slave, Dom, Master decide and makes them happy.

As far as collars, it totally depends upon the dynamic of the people in the relationship. As a sub, i wore a collar. An indication that i gave my submission and it was an honour to wear. There is also a certain comfort to many subs and slaves that are collared. There are also different levels of submission, so to lump them up isn't right either.

Long time back, the term was "my kink is not your kink and that's ok"
There is no rule book where we have to follow to make Uus happy. People have their opinions and that is how it is supposed to be, and not all of us are going to agree - but you know what? At the end of the day, it's what makes us happy!

Sorry, i usually don't post, but "mere submissive" really annoyed me lol and that's my 2 cents (although we don't have pennies in my country anymore lol) oh have an idea! Tosses a nickel, inflation! lol


LuvSpanky 42F

2/12/2019 6:38 am

If somebody wants me to wear a collar that's too much right now. Just starting out and exploring the blogs. I assume a dom would want me to wear a collar if we play. It is a turn on but doesn't the collar have to be earned? A lot here is exciting but looks a bit scary too. Just saying.


CawintShard 68M

2/13/2019 4:51 am

On this subject I wonder what is politically correct these days.


LuvSpanky 42F

2/14/2019 11:17 am

    Quoting col_newlife:
    as poppy said, i do what i am asked. that includes wearing an outward sign of my ownership. My Master has various methods of 'collaring' me including a common collar.
Happy Valentines Day !


ADomsPaean 71M

2/16/2019 12:12 pm

It matters not if one considers herself to be a sub or a slave. Wearing a collar IS indeed a manifestation of one's willingness to submit to another. As to the distinction between a so called sub and a so called slave, read my blog, please.



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