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bimbo4bosses 100F
709 posts
6/11/2017 9:32 pm
IM messages....we need to talk....

Need to get this off my 36DDD chest...LOL ...... Every time i log on to instant messenger on this site i get
30+ messages..here's a sampling:

hi

hey

hey

hi

hello

watch me cum on cam (..eww)

hey

hi

hello

boss here (cause my screen name is bimbo4bosses but he didn't
bother to read my profile or blogs so really has no idea)

dom here (how the fuck am i supposed to respond to that??)

hello

hey

nice tits

Seriously now, if you got 30 IM's with "hey"
or "hi" would you bother to respond to each one?
i doubt it

One guy got mad at me and accused me of being a porn bot(?)
because i didn't respond to his multiple "hi"s.
i'm not a bot..i'm real and just don't want
boring!

Now, if i actually respond (and i usually don't cause
you've already shown you're fuckin boring..)
i get this:

how are you

how are you

hru

(ok...everyone...30+ times...please just assume i'm fine..k?)

what;s up

what do you seek? (i hate that one...)

*dick pic (did i ask for one --um..NO!)BLOCK

the dick pic thing - guys, if its not
here in the room with us, women really aren't interested
in a pic - we do not go to pieces looking at a pic of your cock
(i know you like looking at it but....), likewise, i don't
get weak in the knees at the words "Dom here".
i even wrote out what i don't like (not into bondage
stuff or having your fuck me..don't want to watch
you jerk off on cam...)and more about me in my profile and
blog, plus also in the magazine section - no one fuckin'
reads! You just see tits and send that IM with "hey"
or BBC here or whatever and then when i ignore you, i'm
a bitch. and when i call you on it, you say, I'm a standard
member, can't view profiles ...again WTF? so you can't
upgrade your membership? (aww, what girl doesn't
love a cheapskate?...the answer is none!)..Guess you're
not serious. believe me, i feel really bad bitching like
this but i guess it doesn't matter cause none of you
guys will read this.....

gotta say, i'm disappointed in most of you guys..c'mon,
i'm on here for the same reason as you..some sexy excitement!
There have been a few that i've chatted with and you
guys really get me hot!! and we've had very sexy fun
together...Here's a clue for the rest of you..these
guys were imaginative, took the time to read my profile/stories/blogs
and looked at all the many pics i've posted and were
descriptive and engaging from the very first IM

Basically i'm just writing this to get it out of my system.....feel
like i'm gonna scream otherwise, i've written
about it several times before with no result.....because
i know none of you bother to read. You just see tits and IM...."hey"


bimbo4bosses 100F
55 posts
6/11/2017 9:36 pm

i'm really sorry to sound like such a bitch...i'll go back to being your dumb bigtiited bimbo now.......giggle


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
6/11/2017 10:40 pm

The simple greetings should be forgiven as you never know if they get seen. Sending a beautifully crafted, eloquent invitation to lude discussions or rampent participatory sex is just a bi daft if the message never even gets read, let alone responded to.

The other side of the coin is when guys get messages (usually from Ghana) of some pretty young thing wanting to be their 24/7 sex slave and love them forever! Really? Is anybody that stupid?

C'est la vie (for what it's worth, I'm not a fan of big tits!).


Utka 29F
2 posts
6/11/2017 11:17 pm

yep, you've perfectly explained why i rarely use im anymore


Pauliepaul4u 66M

6/11/2017 11:26 pm

Is this what most people *men* write? Nobody would blame you if you never answered an IM again.
Conversation seems to be a thing of the past but I know that if want someone to take notice I need to engage their mind first.
Yes you're attractive, yes you have amazing breasts (see I did notice), but you also have a working thinking brain.
Paul x


bimbo4bosses replies on 6/12/2017 6:35 am:
thank you!...i knew there were some intelligent Men out there..you are one!

opus20002 63M
148 posts
6/12/2017 3:59 am

And why are you apologizing? No need to. They don't get it, you are being blunt, since they don't get it No apologies needed.


bimbo4bosses replies on 6/12/2017 6:36 am:
...sorry...i mean sorry i apologized..i mean..oh shoot...sorry

Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
6/12/2017 6:45 am

What I can't figure out is that you've got 141 supposedly active friends, and you can't find anyone to talk to? Why are you fucking around on IM?

The second thing I can't figure out is why you'd want to be in Florida? Of all the boring states to be in, Florida must be at the top of the list. Your IM interlocutors merely reflect what they expect someone in Florida's monosyllabic vocabulary to be.

This July, when you're sitting on a flat beach on your flat peninsula looking out at a placid, flat ocean and sweating your sweet little ass off, think of me in the Blue Ridge mountains of Virginia next to a spring-fed mountain lake and drop me an email and I'll fly you up here and save you from your boredom. (If you get on your knees and beg nicely like a good girl )


lovesoraland 71M
37 posts
6/12/2017 6:50 am

No wonder you don't answer when I IM you.


forxxxwishes 49M
14 posts
6/12/2017 9:52 am

You have a working thinking brain. keep thinking


sir_sadistic2012 52M
16 posts
6/12/2017 11:53 pm

perfect answer!!!


jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
6/13/2017 6:33 am

You project yourself as a helpless, rather dim-witted easily humiliated woman with low self-esteem who enjoys and welcomes humiliation and pain (accompanied by very suggestive photos of yourself with everything hanging out) and then you complain about the humiliating, dim-witted comments you receive?

Either you are helpless, dim-witted and enjoy being humiliated or you're smarter than than everyone who comments and IMs you, and either:

1) you just found a new hobby.
2) This is all part of your dissertation
3) You have a very weird sense of humor and you need to get out more.
4) You are searching for 'the One' .
5) None of the above.

In any case, your photos are very pleasant to look at and I wish you luck in whatever your goal is.


bimbo4bosses replies on 6/13/2017 9:09 am:
im not complaining about humiliating comments at least you have to think those up...im complaining about the number of IMs i get where all they say is hi..hru..and then have nothing else...i want imagination...you Men are supposed to be smarter than a dumb bimbo...but if all you got is "hi"...

jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
6/13/2017 10:47 am

My fault. (I didn’t read carefully)
In that case….Here’s a little insight:

Given facts: Beautiful, sexy women are intimidating to many men.
The more beautiful and sexy, the more intimidating.

Some come to look at naked photos of attractive, sexy females so they can fantasize scenarios where we are safe and do not have to work hard interacting.

When we comment on a blog post you’re still not real enough to be intimidating.

IMs are more real than a blog post because the person is right there, in real time, responding to what we write. That is, the realization that the person on the other end is sitting at a computer aware that we are sitting at a computer. There are expectations. (For a rational, coherent, respectful, (and maybe even imaginative and entertaining) set of responses.)

The most accurate way of describing how many of us men feel under this kind of pressure is in this UTube scene from an old Honeymooner’s show starring Jackie Gleason: (Where he says his famous “Homina Homina, Homina”)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wK9odsWwfIo

The first time I ever IM’d with a female was exhilarating and terrifying and wonderful. I think I did okay as far as responding in rational, coherent, respectful, (and maybe even imaginative and entertaining) manner but I remember shaking all over.

It’s survival of the fittest out there for all the males vying for your attention. I can see why you would complain about a “hi,” with no followup on an IM. Just understand, that in a case like that, they are probably saying “Homina Homina, Homina” on the other end.


bimbo4bosses replies on 6/13/2017 1:38 pm:
Lol..Thank you for that great explanation!

tennmanforu 68M

6/13/2017 6:00 pm

What a set of lovely tits im me we can talk and i can say more than 1 word


Tbill1 58M
1795 posts
6/14/2017 8:47 am

Well, I'm sure you felt better after getting all that off your chest. I believe you get those responses on IM but it is a lot different from what I get, which isn't much... Mostly guys on here of course.

andy


CountryDom55 69M  
10 posts
6/16/2017 6:46 pm

Hey what you forget is that most men believe that the prize between our legs is what they think is their best feature and just want to their best foot forward.
Besides a picture is worth a thousand words.
Unfortunately it is just four words repeated 250 times
" Hi I am stupid"


Pauliepaul4u 66M

6/16/2017 11:50 pm

I asked to be "friends" because I saw past your obviously amazing boobs. You're an intelligent young woman...........................I get it x


lickherslow1 62M
98 posts
6/17/2017 5:21 am

it's your blog it's your decision what you post on here...
now as you know most men are visual, hence all they know is look at the pictures but the smart men know women need mental stimulation to get turned on.
i know when i im a woman i'm for the most part polite ask a few things about them or their desires but like you say it's from reading noticing the small things.
seems to work for the most part for me... now do something about the fucking bullshit "slaves" & the flood of the new Mistresses fuck me sick of them


ergeniusRm 48M
59 posts
6/20/2017 6:25 am

It's not my case. You'll see my im message.


DancingDom 74M
22474 posts
6/21/2017 5:26 am

All the women here get those approaches, some more than most. Nude photos, those with sexual activity depicted and to a degree screen names will attract the lazy and the asshats.

Tell them Hey is for horses.
\
Just be yourself, be selective. Your attractive and obviously not shy. So you should be able to find some decent guys that fit your criteria.

Best to you.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


wlkt11 60M

6/23/2017 8:57 pm

I think it's simply laziness. Those who send things like you listed believe that because you're on this site they have no need to actually be creative. It's sad really, with all you have to offer a little effort may well go a long way. You are indeed a very attractive and stacked woman and I hope your search for the right Master works out. He will be a very lucky and happy and likely tired man when that time comes.


Ixforqu 61M
461 posts
6/27/2017 5:26 pm

When I was young, starting a conversation without adressing the opposite by any salutation and posing a formula concerning his/her health means rudeness or being unpolite - lack of manners and social skills. Now I am too old for Rock'n Roll - too young to die and social skills turned to be boring.

Men don't huddle in a male encounter group, before they enter chatrooms. Would they, they could arrange by drawing sticks, who today may use "Hi, hey, hello" in IM addressing every women and who is allowed to ask "How are you". Whole the rest will have to find other terms or leaving salutations to the wolves at all and fall straight through the virtual door with rough directness...

It is much harder to start a conversation with a stranger than to have the choice of leaning back, wait what comes along and respond to it or not. When getting tired of unwelcoming, redundant salutations and bored by questions about health, weather and actual intentions, just turn the page and play the reverse game - start a communication with a stranger by yourself. Just the way, you mean an ideal conversation should be started...

Good Night and may the legions of the Evil don't cross your path on your way to new experiences!
Finish a conversation in this style and you will never hear a single word from the conterpart, I bet.


tennmanforu 68M

7/1/2017 7:54 pm

im anytime we will have some fun


lovesoraland 71M
37 posts
7/3/2017 2:48 pm

You're popular!


Jammybob1234 65M
26 posts
7/22/2017 12:24 am

great blog makes me think I better stop saying hi sorry about that must be more imaginative xxx


BossDom15 45M

7/30/2017 1:24 pm

Being selective is a good thing on here. I've been here for years and people are very much the same...Mostly polite, but some are just...ugh!

I'd say that if someone simply says "hi" to give them a chance...they may well just be trying to be polite. Anything else...iggy-ville!


DaddyMadeMe 44F

9/5/2017 11:53 am

Dear B4B,
I've only been a member for a week but, gosh, you are so right about IM and the male cretins that lurk there. So many semi-literate and rude bozos, it really something. I really enjoyed your post.
Love,
DMM


berlin_sklave 52M
632 posts
2/17/2018 3:00 am

I really dont get it.. you post a topless pic.. but dick pics are wong?


CawintShard 68M

12/19/2018 5:42 pm

That took a lot of thinking. Interesting.


CawintShard 68M

12/19/2018 5:43 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree. Pink on grey is tough on the eyes.


IntoitallD 63M
10 posts
4/25/2019 12:59 pm

If one day you're the Boss, how many days then, are you the Bimbo?
Is it 'Schizophrenia' or just a simple case of 'switching' to satisfy
fantasies on both ends of the spectrum.


2weak 47M

3/19/2020 1:43 am

Well when you look like you, you are going to get messages. Just not a lot of good ones.


medave4u 64M
144 posts
8/29/2020 7:04 am

luv the pic , what were u sayin


IntenseControlNV 41M
14 posts
8/29/2020 7:18 pm

If they put some effort into, a proper message. Why even bother answering. Some guys just want to jerk off.


Shalacon 60M
8 posts
9/11/2020 5:59 pm

Well I am sorry you have to put up with so many morons on this site who think with there tiny dicks instead of with there minds if they even have one to begin with .


grapinoguy 57M
28 posts
2/1/2021 10:44 pm

would like to have a look at your cunt sometime



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