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I always forgive to whom is looking for forgiveness.
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Well, I pick #3.......There were times I spent so much energy on being mad and holding a grudge I didn't see all the good right in front of me......never again. Now.......get back to #9
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Slave rick
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I pick #1 But the way I see it, if you hold the grudge against your trespasser, He has won. Your the one that feels the anger and hurt and you live with it, always, until you find a way to forgive and forget. I try to forgive, no, it is not easy and sometimes takes longer than I like, but I have learned. "Seeking soul-mate!! Seduce my mind and you can have my body, touch my soul and I’m yours forever! "
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1 and 2, it is an ongoing battle, with myself... sometimes stupid people really get at me.... i confess i am tolerant to a whole load of bullshit, but sometimes, it is just 1 too many! so.. i struggle to be good....
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i tend to react according to the intent and depth of the act and the person . One size don't fit all , but some things aren't so much . #6 is nasty , I 'll save that one for special folks , yes.
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8/20/2017 12:56 pm |
3 and 4 good combination I think. 7 Depends on what someone did.
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1 for sure. I recently wrote a post about how my One said very hurtful things, including that maybe we were through. The thought crossed my mind "how dare he! Nobody talks that way to me. I don't need him anyway!" I actually looked on CL as I imagined moving forward without him in my life. But it didn't last a day. I have no pride. I would so much rather forgive him and have him in my life...there is no way I'd be better off without him and I know he feels the same about me. Once I realized that, all animosity was gone and forgiveness was simple and effortless. We are better off now that we have dealt with the issue. I don't hold grudges.
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I pick #1 But the way I see it, if you hold the grudge against your trespasser, He has won. Your the one that feels the anger and hurt and you live with it, always, until you find a way to forgive and forget. I try to forgive, no, it is not easy and sometimes takes longer than I like, but I have learned.
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Forgiving those who are remorseful, good idea. Holding a grudge, being angry and such saps too much energy and distracts the mind. Best to forgive if you can. Never forget, but do forgive if you can. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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1) everyone has the ability, forgiveness is a choice 2) great quote from 2,000 years ago 9) want to add to my personal collection of naughty pictures and, loving all of your profile pics the last 2 weeks!
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To Me Life Is Waaaaaayyyyy Too Short To Ever Hold A Silly Old GRUDGE
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If you mean, behaving as if it didn't happen kinda forgiveness, then mostly yes. Just, I think sometimes it - forgiveness - comes AFTER a temporary grudge, Orrrr repeated, unaddressed grievance. In the last case, that calls for activism from me. Provocative (& thorny for me) question, there Karen. Good for you! BD~ P Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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