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rata7641 44 T
3 Articles
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Hairy or not?   5/12/2006

Do women want men with hairy bodies or do they prefer them waxed or shaved including the genitals.


0 Comments, 242 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
NibblesNLix 47 M
16 Articles
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Testicles are our friends.   5/11/2006

While giving BJs and HJs, please observe the following: The balls. Here's a nice little trick that some of you don't know. Heaps of you do know, the rest of you can simply nod your heads and revel in past experience. Using you index finger and thumb hold the top of the scrotum where it meets the base of the penis. Now wrap your two digits around the scrotum so the tips touch each other ...


2 Comments, 284 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Slave_Trainer_FL
24 Articles
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Angry PAYING Member a Word to the wise   5/9/2006

*** I KNOW I AM NOT ALONE ADD YOUR COMMENTS ***
A vent from an angry member.
To the Executive Staff of Various, Inc,
I do not know why you are trashing your own website.. Many people I know are leaving because the site is becoming like Adult FriendFinder, your OTHER site.. BDSM is not about SEX, it never will be the MAIN focal point. ...


0 Comments, 239 Views, 7 Votes ,6.10 Score
Drirty_old_man 51 C
10 Articles
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So you think you have what it takes to be a Dom huh?   5/9/2006

You've thought about it, you've fantasized about it, and you've decided that it's for you. All well and good. Now to take the theory into practice. There's a distance between wanting to be a dom and being a dom, though, and it pays to be aware that there's more involved than you might think.
How hard can it be?
Trickier than it sounds. There's ...


6 Comments, 410 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
pulltoyforgirls 60 M
1 Article
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how to capture webcam images if you have windows or windows xp   5/6/2006

hi all thought this might be of some use to anyone who wants to to take pics of people on web cams. Asking their permission first of course to take a web cam image in windows xp first press the print screen key then open up paint then press the control key plus v then save the image with the line gif you now have that image. in your pictures file hope this helps....


0 Comments, 64 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Slave_Trainer_FL
24 Articles
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Offers?   5/4/2006

Question..?
I am willing to pay for someone in the United States to relocate at my cost.

Is this a offering to buy the person such as the like buying a date? (yea ALT thinks this)
or
Is this a reasonable offer should she be the right slave I seek?
...


2 Comments, 207 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
singlenwanting 40 M
1 Article
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Need Help   4/30/2006

I am new to this and I am wondering if there are any attractive females who might help me in my new experimentation. Are there any of you that can help. Females only please.


0 Comments, 36 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Herkermer2 47 M
2 Articles
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Why   4/24/2006

This is the 3rd time that I'm trying to post this question. Thus far alt has denied it twice. Ok I have been a paying customer on this site for a long time and it's time something is done about it. At least half(probably more like 80 of the responses I get back from women are fake, and I know other guys are experiencing this same thing. Before long it's going to be as bad as Adult ...


2 Comments, 287 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
heepINangel 45 C
1 Article
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Is it wrong?   4/22/2006

Is it wrong sometimes I like to be filled up to the extrem? Could this hurt me in any way? I'm afraid that this might stretch things out to the point of no repair. Thanx, angel


4 Comments, 371 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
xxxplorers2 73 C
1 Article
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Idenitfying , email grabbers and such on alt   4/18/2006

As of late, alt seems to be inundated with , prostitutes and people grabbing personal email info for spamming.
A few tips we've found to be helpful and all based on the id. Don't bother with these. They are a waste of time.
- All are standard members. If you see someone with a paid membership, none of the following apply. -------------------------------------- - Seem ...


0 Comments, 232 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
dynamitesneonaty 41 M
11 Articles
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expectations   4/13/2006

As a reminder for those like myself; Don't get ahead of yourself with a new relationship, and don't have high expectations for at least a month, until everything eases down.


0 Comments, 192 Views, 0 Votes
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Why Do You Suppose ???   4/7/2006

Why Do You Suppose We Do Some Of The Things That We Do??? You Can State What Would Be Considered To Be The Obvious...But I Take Pleasure From Hearing Your Most Thought Of And Deepest Feelings.
Enlighten Me!!!
...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Am I A SWITCH Or A DOM ???   4/6/2006

Based Off Of What You May Have Read About/From Me...Ms.Kitty...How Do You Really Perceive Me??? As A Dom Or A Sub??? I Profess To Being A Switch, With A Submissive Side Of Course But What Do YOU Think Would Fit Me Best...Hence, The Reason I'm A Switch...I Enjoy It All From Both Sides...Though, Whatever Responses I Receive Will Not Change This...Simply Want To Know How I May ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 0 Votes
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Simply A Little Insight...   4/6/2006

I'm Looking For A MASTER To Give Me A Few Tips On Being A MASTER...I'm Quite Dominant And My Partner Is Passive...I Want To Use This To Both Of Our Advantages...LOL ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 0 Votes
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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Is There Something Wrong With A Sexually Free Spirited Woman???   4/6/2006

In the past, I've been faced with a dilemma...and am now reaching out to my fellow ALTS for a little input. Two part question...the other is below.
Question: How many men are intimidated by a sexually free-spirited and uninhibited woman???
What I've discovered personally, firsthand is that most are...maybe some won't admit it...but I truly believe a few of ...



2 Comments, 251 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
MatchedSet 50 C
11 Articles
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What Would Be Your BEST Suggestions???   4/5/2006

I Was Wondering What Some Of You Would Suggest For A Couple Where The Female Partner Has Had More Experience In The Lifstyle...And The Male Is Still A Beginner???
I'd Love To Dominate Him...He's Pretty Passive...So Would It Be Wise For Me To Simply Just Begin Placing Damands And Such Upon Him???
He's Said I Can Do Whatever I Like...He Wants Me To Lead And He ...



1 Comments, 65 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
tazydevl181 45 C
1 Article
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Cum Swallowing Tips   4/3/2006

Cum Swallowing Tips
Suck on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately before giving head. Many guys enjoy getting a tingle from mint or menthol products on their willies. The mint will add a little zing to the blow job, and kill the taste of the semen when he cums. You can also use a dab of toothpaste in a pinch. We don't recommend mouthwash or breath sprays; ...


2 Comments, 492 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
Meanness 66 F
1 Article
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Truth in age   4/2/2006

Greetings, Recently I was contacted through alt by another dom. The age on his profile was 60. When we met I thought he was older and asked him how old he was an he said 62 and then while telling a story he refered to himself as 65. We had met for a drink and seemed to click as two tops. I am 48 years old. My birthday is not April Fools Day as it says on my ...


1 Comments, 170 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
aquike4me 52 M
2 Articles
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can anyone out there help me?   4/1/2006

I am happily married but my sex life is suffering. My wife is great but there just doesn't seem to be enough time for sex. Have any of you got into this kind of situation? Is there anything i can do to help my sex life pick up? Anything at all let me know. Is there a video or toys that worked i'm willing to try just about anything.


2 Comments, 151 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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Is this dom safe or dangerous...   3/30/2006

Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about. So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation and with that came the ...


12 Comments, 933 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
Neo35911 38 M
1 Article
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Im new   3/27/2006

Im new to this sight and like to be the dom partner. Is there anyway i can find female partners who would be willing to be sub?


0 Comments, 82 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
monaangel 61 F
16 Articles
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Learning From my Own Mistakes   3/27/2006

I recently had written an article because I was very upset when My Sir had emailed me releasing me and getting off Alt, , Moving out of the state and stuff , ., .I Was wrong, He is not a Fake I wrote an article out of hurt and anger..I have since tried to connect to several different Dom's , ,I have had one disaster after another, , , Ladies and gentleman that also might be Sub's.This is a ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
clitlicker5013 69 M
5 Articles
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Don't always rely on looks   3/25/2006

I have been with several women from this site. I have found that you should never rely on looks alone. Most of the women I have been with that are the "barbie" type are shallow. I think that the best women I have been with are not the barbie type. They are more down to earth and much more appealing. They make much better companions.


4 Comments, 186 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
Maestro05 49 M
9 Articles
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The Difference between S/M and Abuse   3/12/2006

A group of leaders and activists who attended the Leather Leadership Conference II in NYC on April 17-19, 1998, compiled the following set of ideals based on established community principles that SM is fundamentally different from abuse. We hope the community agrees to the following Standards & Guidelines that are intended to help the law enforcement and social services communities ...


1 Comments, 220 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
MistressLila 68 C
3 Articles
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Advice for new male submissives   3/9/2006

This article is being written by Mistress Lila's male submissive. my name is pleasure.
Hello. Let me tell you a little bit about me and why i have the right to address this topic.
i have been a submissive since i was 23. i am 50 now. My first wife was a Dominant. She trained me as a service sub to Her and Her friends. (ok guys, get your heads out of your crotches. Not ...


3 Comments, 264 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
dcsandrea 42 F
2 Articles
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What I looked for   3/6/2006

Since I wrote something about what I do not want to see in messages and profiles and since I have gone forward and I am in the process of actually becoming owned, I thought I would write about what I looked for. I will put a strong disclaimer that this is purely one girl’s opinion and thought process and that is all. I would expect we all have different ways when it comes to this subject. ...


2 Comments, 283 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
YimYim123 43 M
7 Articles
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Whats the catch with Dommes?   3/5/2006

OK whats the catch? Your profile isnt advertizing for money or anything so whats the catch? Dont tell me, your looking for free labour or something? I mean you cant actually be looking for a male sub for a real relationship can you surely?


1 Comments, 153 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
heavyballs4u 78 M
20 Articles
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at Boston's Logan Airport   3/1/2006

The airport limo brought her up to the main door, When she stepped out I nearly fell to the floor She was a wearing a Black Vinyl raincoat, and matching boots Her porter accidentally dropped her bag, he wasn't very astute When he bent over, her stiletto heel found...leaving its mark It sounded like a whoof, he keeled over_N_he didn't dare bark Picked up her bags, and he lap dogged ...


0 Comments, 244 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
jackudamiona 59 C
13 Articles
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Oral Sex, Who's really in charge?   3/1/2006

Have you ever wondered about that question? It seems to be that if you ask a woman, it's them on both ways. If you ask a man you get the same answer that they are. So which is true? That depends on the situation. Of course if the giver is tied up the reciever is in control. If reciever is tied up then the giver is in control. If no restrants are involved thats the shady grey area. ...


1 Comments, 305 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
27SexySensitive 50 M
2 Articles
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Take your time to learn all you can   2/25/2006

Every one's in such a hurry these day's and not getting any ware fast.Take your time to learn all you can with in you World.Enjoy life and all it has to offer good and bad.Ying & Yang good & evil spinning toghter in a perfect circle of Harrmoney much like your own little World.


0 Comments, 78 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score