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Combining TENS units with other "toys" 2/20/2006
TENS units really turn me on. I am considering purchasing
one, and using a bi polar vaginal insert attachment. However,
I really like my Eroscillator, a vibrator that I use for
clitoral stimulation and that plugs into the electrical
outlet. Can I use this with my TENS unit, or will it be dangerous
to use an electrical device with an electrical device?
Also, is it safe to use the TENS unit ...
5 Comments,
423 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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My .02 advice to Dom's profiles and messages 2/15/2006
I am sure there are one million articles for both men wondering
why they do not get replies and from woman who are tired of
the lame messages. As a woman who has been on for a short time,
here is my impression and advice for the men and couples
out there looking for a woman.
<br>
1) Don't be negative! - Yes, there are a lot of fakers
out there both men and woman. Ranting about ...
11 Comments,
1105 Views,
80 Votes
,8.33 Score
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First time submissive 2/6/2006
I have always wondered what it would be like to be humiliated
and subjected to pain. I have enjoyed the domination side
before many times, but was keen to see what it was like with
the boot on the other foot (so to speak). I visited a B&D
palour last week, and I have not been able to get the experience
out of my head. It made me dizzy with excitement.
<br>
I had my cock tied up, I ...
1 Comments,
249 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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training a Dom? 2/5/2006
My BF/lover is wanting to go to the next level. We've
been pretty wild in the past, borderline BDSM, but now I've
issued an invitation, which he has accepted. A matter of
trust. We've done a few toys, anal, biting, and sex
play for hours.
<br>
He's waiting for the greenlight. Anything he wants
is kind of vague and could be harmful, so any suggestions?
i've had a bit of leather ...
3 Comments,
311 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How does one know ? 2/4/2006
How does one know if a Dom is as experienced as he says he is?....
How do you know if what he is saying to you in the first place
is fact or fallacy?.... I dont want me make the same mistake
twice..... I chat to a lot of people..... and they have given
some do's and dont's.... like your safety etc
when first meeting....
<br>
thanks would be interested in different opinions and ...
5 Comments,
393 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Fighting Fire With Fire; why pain works 2/1/2006
It's important for every Dom/me to understand the
underlying reasons for the infliction of pain. I am familiar
with all the varied thoughts and motivations that subs
will give for wanting to receive pain. When you seek to question
and understand the underlying reasons you will realize
they almost always arise from some unresolved issue in
the past that was too difficult to deal with at ...
2 Comments,
853 Views,
31 Votes
,6.50 Score
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The Cornerstone of Loyalty is Trust. 1/26/2006
The cornerstone of loyalty is trust. I recently had an opportunity
to speak to a sister who came to me regarding a man she has
been being used by. She feels abandoned and mislead and
lied to by him due to his actions and the words of another
Free Man (a supposed friend to her Owner) who has spoken
to her regarding him. Yes, this lady has been serving him
real time but not in a 24/7 ...
0 Comments,
428 Views,
16 Votes
,4.45 Score
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The making of a Domme, if possible. 1/18/2006
My spouse and i have started to play (mildly, to be sure!)
a bit of D/s. She has shown tendencies to be Domme, and none
to be sub, which is fine with me, as i prefer subbing. She
is a bit on the prude side, and i would like her to be more open
to exploring and discovering what is involved in this world
of BDSM. We have been approached by a few people, from this
site as well as others, ...
1 Comments,
213 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Safe Stimming 1/13/2006
I have been a serious stimmer for some years now and have
researched the subject extensively. There is a load of
misinfornation out there and some of it is downright dangerous.
<br>
1. A stimm unit needs to be battery operated. Non mains power
is essential for safety.
<br>
2. Electrodes for insertion or contact on the skin must
not be made of any of the following ...
0 Comments,
357 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Finding the right one is really tough 1/12/2006
I’ve had conversations with some wonderful people and
still do. They’re erotic, funny, sinful (wink) and overall
great. Maybe it’s my lack of understanding of the lifestyle,
after all I’m totally new to this and who would be so brass
as to assume they knew everything about the lifestyle just
by reading what’s on this site. So what’s up?
<br>
Well, I think I write well, ...
3 Comments,
328 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Don't fire off with sex right off the bat. 1/10/2006
Just a small tip, go for a woman's ming befor her body.
They'll pick up it.
0 Comments,
192 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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DOMCOUPLE 1/8/2006
YOU ONLY LITLE SLAVE!
2 Comments,
400 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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face 12/28/2005
i love having my lips as a seat for a dom ,
1 Comments,
108 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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water 12/28/2005
i like placing my lips on the side of a pussy when a dom is peeing
, my lips like feeling the vibes, the pee dont enter me, i
think it safe. am i right?
1 Comments,
72 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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sub 12/28/2005
i worship pussy i like having my lips on it , how can i let my
dom know this?
1 Comments,
50 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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rules 12/28/2005
what are the rules in being a mistriss sub ?
1 Comments,
79 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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mistriss 12/28/2005
i like to be a sub for a mistriss, can any body tell me how
1 Comments,
51 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Too taboo? 12/22/2005
I've never met anyone here who mentioned an interest
in animal sex. Is that subject too taboo even for this site?
<br>
Would I be offensive even in bringing it up during a chat?
<br>
--WhiteDoveFeather
9 Comments,
1098 Views,
24 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Love got in the way 12/19/2005
I met my current master here.
I expected someone unexperienced, I figure hey Ill tell
him what iI want in due time getting more and more hardcore.
But then he had feelings for me.
Tells me he loves me and i said "as do I "
Not thinking it through fully.
Now I think hes too "in love" to punish me the
way I want him to."He seems to not be sadistic enough
for me , he hesitent"
Plus I ...
1 Comments,
206 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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I need help w/giving oral 12/19/2005
I know, it sounds so stupid, but I am completely serious.
I am not at all experienced in giving oral sex to men. for
some reason i am very scared that i will do it wrong or that
they won't respond the way i think they should. My biggest
fear is not being able to get a man off. How humiliating would
that be?!?! So, because I now have a guy that makes me really
want to do it, because i ...
2 Comments,
324 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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shaveing 12/6/2005
do women prefer a guy to be shaved in the front and the rear
or what?
0 Comments,
139 Views,
0 Votes
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Warning for female subs 12/6/2005
For those who care if their man is married or who value honesty
in a relationship. Beware the dominant married man who
claims to be a busy professional who is also a single parent.
Using that status to gain sympathy and explain limited
availability.
It can be hard for the sub, who has formed a relationship
with him, when the man trots out his marriage as an easy excuse
for ending, ...
1 Comments,
353 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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just need to know 12/3/2005
hi.
This may sound a bit dumb to some of you that know better,
but I've not been taking much notice notice of whats
happening outside of my tiny world just lately.I've
just heard that BDSM websites are going to be Illegal, or
looking at them is to be outlawed.
<br>
IS THIS TRUE?
Like I said it may sound a bit dumb to those that know what
the situation actually is, but to ...
0 Comments,
116 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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TS/Cd's Girl's Hair and Make up 12/3/2005
Hello,
Alot of gurls like me have emailed and wanted me to answer
some general stuff. Like make up and hair questions. I will
answer them here and some other stuff I have been wanting
to say.
Make Up- First off a clean face is a better "slate"
to work with. Use what colors you like! My color's may
not work for everyone. Don't create what you don't
have work with what you have. ...
1 Comments,
193 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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A well stocked dungeon 12/1/2005
Now, I'm currently designing my dungeon (hoping to
use it pretty soon) & I'm trying to think of good
ways to organize my toys, clothes, & other fun things
<br>
So, I have 2 questions: My Dungeon is basically going to
be my spare bedroom - so how do you make it less 'bedroom'
& more 'dungeon'? I live in an apartment,
so I can't make too many drastic changes (painting
the walls - ...
1 Comments,
186 Views,
0 Votes
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TRAINING 11/30/2005
Training Is How a Dominant Learns His submissive's
Needs. To wield Power over someone you must understand
them. This Is Something That Must Flow Naturally From Within
Him. The Time In Which A Dominant Shall Teach His submissive,
However At the same time...He Is Able To Learn What Kind
Of submissive She Is. & Whether His Needs Both Physically
And Emotionally Shall Be Met. As A Dominant Man, ...
8 Comments,
561 Views,
23 Votes
,6.86 Score
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[b]Too much competition?[/b] 11/22/2005
So what is the deal here? I don't think I'm particularily
unattractive, nor do I see myself as a jerk. Yet I get very
few responses to my profile and/or e-mails. Is everybody
else out there so witty and good looking I'm at the bottom
of the barrel? I think not! Is there too many other guys out
there that I'm lost in the shuffle? Maybe so. What kind
of B.S. works? Honesty doesn't seem to ...
1 Comments,
208 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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A thrid member 11/21/2005
Me any my girlfriend have for a while been toying with the
idea of a threesum, or maybe even particapating in an orgie.
However of course there is the issue of the small doubts
and trust issuses that i suppose are bound to exist. Such
as the thought of will this destroy what we have together?
<br>
I guess there are a fair few couples in this place who have
added a 3rd member to ...
3 Comments,
235 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Kama Sutra Positions - The deep one 11/21/2005
This is a position of total penetration, of there its name.
With the high and opened legs, it waits to that his companion
introduces the penis in his vagina to wear his legs in shoulders
of him, who will support his hands to regulate the movement.
To many women she can seem to them complicated, uncomfortable
or painful the visualization of this position, but she
is worth the trouble to ...
0 Comments,
350 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Pee and scat play 11/9/2005
I enjoy pee play and have been subjected to scat.
Pee is filted by the kidneys before being realeased.
But with shit its body waste.
I beleive pee is safe but not sure of shit.
What are your comments if you have any.
tammy
6 Comments,
812 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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