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[I][COLOR teal] "In between what you once were, and who you are now becoming, is where the dance of life really begins" ~ author unknown [/I]
Who am I? Such a tough question to answer in a few short sentences.
Who am I? I'm a woman, mother, , employee, friend, companion, lover, submissive, His slut, His wife, and a girl with a taste for the unconventional.
I'm a 48 year old woman firmly planted in the next season of my life and continuing this journey with my husband, Sir Francis (Mr_SF).
I'm the type of girl who loves to dance in the rain, talks to complete stranger, supports my friends the best way I know how and absolutely hates that I love to give up control. I'm fairly plain and simple yet eclectic and educated. I'm well traveled and tend to be a 'big picture' thinker...I am just as comfortable fine dining as I am picnicking, the company is more important then the meal.
I'm not here for a 'hook- up' or desperately seeking someone to 'rescue' me so if you have those desires look elsewhere. I'm an observer; I like to learn from my peers and those who are already where I want to be. I dont have any deep psychological need to be beat, bound and abused
pain is not my pleasure but I do so love to ride that delicious edge where pain and pleasure collide. I am submissive but have very dominant traits as well, if there is no one to stand up and take charge, if I sense even the slightest lack of leadership, I just fall into that space. I am the social and power-exchange equal of any dominant to whom I have not submitted.
It seems so many are looking for their soul mate, needs someone to 'complete' them or seeking their 'one true love.' I don't want someone to complete me, that suggests I'm not complete already, which I am...I checked, all my parts are here. I'm not looking for my 'one true love' because I don't believe there is just one. What I am looking for is someone to compliment me...the yang to my yin...the shuck to my jive...the lead to my harmony...the orange to my blue.
[I]my desire to be submissive is my addiction, my ability to be submissive is my strength, my freedom to be submissive is my power, my choice to be submissive is my wisdom. ~author unknown
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My Ideal Person:
When asked what it is I seek in a Dom, here are the three qualities I look for: Quiet Strength- Strength should not be something boasted about...I will be able to "feel" His strength and Dominance in my spirit...a subtle glance at me should be enough to bring me back to that space that exists between Him and I. Integrity- He does what He says, and says what He means. He admits his mistakes and shortcoming, tries to be an ever evolving person and leads those around him to do the same. Humor- He has to make me laugh. Laughter is something I can't do without, and He must be able to laugh at His self and not take everything so seriously.
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