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I am married. We have an understanding that I can interact with, befriend and play with any submissive I desire to. My wife will be aware of my activities, although not actively involved. The need to 'sneak around' does not exist for me. That being said .......
Mix one cup Master, one cup Dominant, one cup Sapiosexual and two cups Daddy Dom ..... Blend well. That pretty much describes me. I am educated, kind, loving and personable . I am vasectomy safe, D&D free and very REAL. You be REAL too. I seek a submissive/slave to serve and fully explore this lifestyle with me. Your limits will be defined, respected and then pushed. I am not overly sadistic and do not humiliate or inflict excessive/extreme pain to get my kicks. I do, however, take this very seriously and you should too or we will not be compatible. It is desirable that you would have certain masochistic tendencies that we could explore and expand. I love a shapely ass and love to caress, kiss, spank, flog and cane one! Previous experience is not necessary, but would be a plus, as is the desire to explore your deepest darkest fantasies without shame. I am very open to a LTR with the right submissive/slave. I am also available to discuss, educate and mentor a new submissive/slave interested in learning about the lifestyle. I believe in stroking the mind every bit as much, if not more, as the body.
[COLOR yellow][I]I’d like to think that I’m a nice man. I’m considerate and I’m caring. I want the best for people. But make no mistake about it, when the time comes, I change. I become someone else. I take, I push and I expect. I will want to hear you moaning from both pleasure and pain. It will sting and it will hurt. Your body will ache and your mind will spin. You'll enjoy it.[/I][/COLOR]
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I believe the natural order in a Master/submissive or slave relationship is:
1) The needs of the submissive or slave.
2) The needs of the Master.
3) The wants of the Master.
4) The wants of the submissive or slave.
[I][COLOR yellow]He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you. [/COLOR] [/I]Bob Marley
[COLOR yellow]The act of giving control completely and trusting another person is something that I think many people don’t know that they need. You might even call it therapeutic. Putting yourself into the hands of another allows you to relax and be at peace, letting the rest of your normal life be on pause for that period of time. I think that is part of the magic of BDSM and Domination.[/COLOR] I saw this in another's profile and it resonates with me.
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Mijn Ideale Persoon:
You are a height and weight proportionate attractive woman with a very deep seeded need to submit. You seek fulfillment as a submissive or slave serving a loving, fair, and firm Master. You will have dignity, intelligence, grace, inquisitiveness, charm and be very feminine with a playful nature. You are authentic, communicative and seek a Master to make you whole and a vacant part of your life complete. You have a desire to fully explore your fantasies and to live the lifestyle. You will be every bit the lady in everyday life and every bit the obedient submissive or slave behind closed doors. You know what you want and realize that a BDSM lifestyle is not the only part of a relationship, simply one of the many pieces to the puzzle that can create a beautiful picture for two people. You can spell, punctuate and form complete, coherent and intelligent sentences. You are capable of a two way conversation. You avoid text speak. U no who U R.
A true submissive does not surrender to another person, thing, ideal or fetish. They surrender to that dimension of themselves that craves fulfillment through pleasing. They do not please because they are ordered to or demanded to, but because they need to. It is their calling. They do not seek a Dominant partner to instill submissiveness, but to nurture it. D/s is not one over the other or one under the other but an ebb and flow. At the end of a session the submissive that has done every command is, after all, the strongest will in the room. When all she sought were two words, "good girl". These are not my own words. I saw them elsewhere and adopted them, as I think they are 110% true.
My service. My submission. My surrender. I offer it all to you in exchange for just one thing. You quieting my mind.I believe this statement to be true for many strong submissives.
Ultimately it is the submissive who gratefully and graciously creates their own chains, committing themselves voluntarily to the Dominant who has taught them to fly. I think this statement sums it up perfectly.....
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