I've done vanilla. Its boring. I'm looking for a real one-on-one relationship with someone who, like me, craves a deeper level of intimacy expressed both physically and emotionally.
I have a very low tolerance for BS. If you are here trying to sell something rather than find a real relationship, please move on and don't waste your time or mine; Likewise if your life is a continual train wreck.
If you are looking for some sort of cartoon dominant who insists on ridiculous grammatical rules to make themselves feel superior, I'm not the guy for you.
I'm educated and intelligent. I have a warped sense of humor and find delight in the inappropriate; however, I also can be very diplomatic and can exercise a high degree of tact when necessary. I have very little baggage.
I grew up in a household where my father was very dominant. My mother very much submissive. It's the default model I am accustom to, but I would prefer you not to be a doormat.
I'm not crazy about labels as I find them too restrictive, but if pressed, I would have to say I'm a dominant with many switch tendencies. (I'll be damned if I shun an activity for fear of "threatening" some flimsy categorization). If your comfortable enough to take the reigns once in a while, I'm not threatened to let you do so.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal match is someone who keeps it together in the outside world and has a dark side they are willing to explore in the context of a monogamous relationship.
Be intelligent. Have some understanding of the world. Artsy or intellectual types are preferable so long as they don't mind yard-work and getting dirt under their nails once in a while. No princesses or desperate attention seekers please.
If you have strong opinions, be prepared to articulate your justification when I challenge you on them.
Please be local-ish and absolutely no smokers, heavy drinkers or drug users.
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