Mi persona ideal:
A woman who yearns to explore and be explored. To be opened up (mentally and yes, physically), vulnerable, to have the limits tested and your body and imagination "enhanced". My personal experience, the things that I said were hard limits in the beginning - became the things that excited me the most later. The limits weren't really limits at all - just fear of the unknown. That doesn't mean that I would ignore your limits - NEVER. I would, however, work toward bringing you past them.
Maybe you just need to escape from the world for a while - lose yourself in submission. It IS a wonderful, euphoric, place to be!!! And maybe you and I will just find each other erotically exciting and just enjoy being kinky together.