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TheGentleD0M 55M
2947 posts
7/21/2018 12:24 am
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TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 12:26 am


Beauty may bring you there, but the there has no beauty.


MsSwanger 35F
15964 posts
7/21/2018 4:45 am

The beauty of the picture
Doesn't outweigh the feelinh of the sadness your words.

A picture worth a thousand words
Words worth a thousand more.

Hugs.

I always find such comfort in writing. Even when I relieve the bad I do see some good.


MsSwanger
Journey into my soul.


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
7/21/2018 4:50 am

Fall leads to Winter and a collecting time for inner strength. Then we get Spring and a fresh outlook and renewal. You will still have your friends, at least here no matter the season.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 8:58 am

    Quoting  :

That's very kind of you ...

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 9:01 am

    Quoting MsSwanger:
    The beauty of the picture
    Doesn't outweigh the feelinh of the sadness your words.

    A picture worth a thousand words
    Words worth a thousand more.

    Hugs.

    I always find such comfort in writing. Even when I relieve the bad I do see some good.
I appreciate your kindness.
The picture is a real place, which looks like that every year.

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 9:02 am

    Quoting DancingDom:
    Fall leads to Winter and a collecting time for inner strength. Then we get Spring and a fresh outlook and renewal. You will still have your friends, at least here no matter the season.
Thank you for your gracious and generous words.

{ ... and ... }

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
7/21/2018 11:19 am

I do miss the fall colors every now and then but the eternal sunshine here brings renewal every day as the sun rises out of the ocean........


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
7/21/2018 1:10 pm

Well, interesting your picture, both in symbolism and beauty, and I too have a bench that is a reminder of a pain of a love once had, but now faded into the mist of memories. That bench is in a garden park not far from my home. For a few years, it was hard to pass by that bench, surrounded by lush flowers, plants, trees, and not think of lovely nights in the summer, quietly talking as we reflected in the moon flowers, felt the breeze, and looked at the sparkling stars, fused, with his arms around me, me lying by his chest, and just serene in quiet comfort, and speaking of a future. I remember soon after the break up, it was in the bleakness of late October, and it was raining hard, the sky was inky, and i walked unprotected in the whipping weather, soaked to be bone, tears down my face, and it did not seem to care, walked to bench, and sat and wept and wept.

When you lose a love, it is hard to recover. I envy those who seem to lose someone, and are dating within weeks, days, etc. I wonder how they do it.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


SylviaSoulier 58F
8209 posts
7/21/2018 2:58 pm



In the year that I fell pregnant with my son we visited Japan for the first time. My father, an architect and Japanophile, took us to Kyoto to see Autumn Colour.

The photos that I took that trip are among the best photographs that I have ever taken. Light on leaves - an arboreal idyll.

In your composition I see the pillars (foundations, support) but beyond that the freedom of nature.

Letting go and moving on with a bruised heart, soul and mind is the start.


SylviaSoulier 58F
8209 posts
7/21/2018 3:01 pm

[image]

This is where I had my first breakdown.


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 9:12 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I do miss the fall colors every now and then but the eternal sunshine here brings renewal every day as the sun rises out of the ocean........
In my circuitous travels, I lived in Florida for 3 years.
I loved the weather, but missed the seasons. For me, Time blurs without them.

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 9:16 pm

    Quoting heartofmush:
    Well, interesting your picture, both in symbolism and beauty, and I too have a bench that is a reminder of a pain of a love once had, but now faded into the mist of memories. That bench is in a garden park not far from my home. For a few years, it was hard to pass by that bench, surrounded by lush flowers, plants, trees, and not think of lovely nights in the summer, quietly talking as we reflected in the moon flowers, felt the breeze, and looked at the sparkling stars, fused, with his arms around me, me lying by his chest, and just serene in quiet comfort, and speaking of a future. I remember soon after the break up, it was in the bleakness of late October, and it was raining hard, the sky was inky, and i walked unprotected in the whipping weather, soaked to be bone, tears down my face, and it did not seem to care, walked to bench, and sat and wept and wept.

    When you lose a love, it is hard to recover. I envy those who seem to lose someone, and are dating within weeks, days, etc. I wonder how they do it.
There is the ocean, and there is the puddle.
There are those that love deeply, and those that do not.

A deep love is a spiritual thing, and spiritual things nominally twine and untwine at a slower pace. All the best in your memory and freedom.

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 9:23 pm

    Quoting SylviaSoulier:


    In the year that I fell pregnant with my son we visited Japan for the first time. My father, an architect and Japanophile, took us to Kyoto to see Autumn Colour.

    The photos that I took that trip are among the best photographs that I have ever taken. Light on leaves - an arboreal idyll.

    In your composition I see the pillars (foundations, support) but beyond that the freedom of nature.

    Letting go and moving on with a bruised heart, soul and mind is the start.
The photo above I found on The Net, looking for something specific about The University of Virginia, which I might post in my ongoing Figures series. When I found this picture, much like a PTSD moment, I flash backed to that moment of unraveling which led to my first nervous breakdown. My post wasn't really planned, and as a review would reveal, isn't in line with the more impersonal foundation of my blog.

I have pictures of that place. I don't review them for obvious reasons. I don't believe any rival the one above.

Even at my age, I still am not sure what "letting go" means, or what the process is of doing it, but ...

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
7/21/2018 9:25 pm

    Quoting SylviaSoulier:
    [image]

    This is where I had my first breakdown.
And what do you feel, looking at this place, now?

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


aHedonist 51M
7510 posts
8/1/2018 1:40 pm

    Quoting TheGentleD0M:

    There is the ocean, and there is the puddle.
    There are those that love deeply, and those that do not.

    A deep love is a spiritual thing, and spiritual things nominally twine and untwine at a slower pace. All the best in your memory and freedom.

    Thanks for visiting.

    tgd

Words that will echo.


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
8/1/2018 9:15 pm

... echo ... echo ... echo ... echo ... echo ... echo ... echo

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


SylviaSoulier 58F
8209 posts
8/27/2018 10:30 am

    Quoting TheGentleD0M:

    And what do you feel, looking at this place, now?

    Thanks for visiting.

    tgd



As if this was another person's lifetime away.


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
8/27/2018 9:25 pm

    Quoting SylviaSoulier:


    As if this was another person's lifetime away.
When I see this picture, it makes me feel strangely whole, and that moment again imminent.

Thanks for visiting.


tgd



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